To walk with another person can be as mundane as putting on one's socks and shoes, or it can be a twisting, turning, life-changing journey into unknown territory. It can also be everything in between. My walk with Virginia was life changing. It was unexpected. It was challenging. It was frustrating and confusing. We had highs, and we had lows. Thankfully, it was also awe-inspiring and extraordinary.
Have you ever been a caregiver for a family
member or a friend? Is it, perhaps, on the horizon of your life? Or maybe you
cannot yet see the horizon. Make no mistake, it is not a question of love,
whether to provide much needed and potentially long-term care. It is a question
of necessity. Love, and devotion born out of love, are the firmly rooted
footings on which you stand when providing this necessary care. Humor is the
grab bar you grip tightly when the ground below you begins to shake or shift.
Patience is paramount. I survived it, and you can, too. I believe I am a better
person having had the experience.
My story is a true account of my caregiving
experience with my mother-in-law. It lasted only a few short years and, in that
time, carved such deep and permanent remembrances too good not to share. Some
would ask, "why share something so personal?", and my reply would be,
"why not?". Life is so much sweeter when shared with others. I hope
you find comfort, a little guidance perhaps, enjoy a few laughs, and chew on
some 'food for thought' as you journey with Virginia and I through the
blessings and blunders of Caregiving!
The Great
Grocery Store Adventure
“She was
full throttle and produce was flying in all directions. It was like a
bumper car nightmare. And, of course, she was laughing. I, however,
broke out in a full sweat, trying to catch oranges, apples, onions, and
tomatoes, knowing full-well someone, somewhere was watching all this chaos on
security cameras. I was sure we would be escorted out the door within
minutes. I guess security personnel were off that day because no one
seemed to raise an eyebrow at our antics, not even other nearby shoppers.
Or maybe they did, but how would I have noticed? I was too busy
bobbing for apples!”
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